I have been a victim of confused state of mind for last few days. It’s so weird that I cannot imagine. I already have my objectives very clear and still gone to that state. I was not able to do anything, even did not clean home for two weeks in a row, no great posts at inspire n ignite, no stats checking, didn’t even looked at the number of subscribers. This happened to me after a long time. Whatever worst conditions are there I used to at least check webstats at inspire n ignite. Wow that was worst, took a break and sat alone for some time to understand what wrong.
I am sure you might have been in the same state sometimes in your life. This confused state like a cancer of soul. First it makes one a procrastinator and then slowly makes one too lazy to be able to recover from it. And if it last for a long time you will find yourself trying to move with life instead of living a life you want. It degrade your performance and eat up your time and sometime make you so depressed that you start feeling as if your life is worthless, you cannot do anything and fail in whatever try you make.
There are always ups and downs in life. I am always not motivated and have same levels of energy. Being a human being it’s always there, and if someone claims that he or she is always high in spirits is a true liar. Yes, I can agree on everyone are different in how they deal with ups and downs in the spirit. I am not talking about someone shouting all the time as high spirited. Shouting and being loud all the time doesn’t mean someone is happy and up in sprit. I see most of the frustrated people shout and loud, but they are deep shallow inside.
The best way to keep oneself up in spirit is to be around enthusiast and high spirited friends. Lately I realized that living with confused people makes you confuse and living with depressed friends will make you depress unknowingly. Willing to know what other friends are doing is different from being a part of their confusions and problems. Be careful and drag yourself out of that loop.
The moment you feel your life sucks and you haven’t done anything productive for few days, pause for a second. Take your bike out and drive to the outskirts and sit alone for an hour. Find out what do you want and who is affecting you. Do set thing right for you and keep the crap out. Meet everyone as usual and listen to them but with one ear, don’t let it go into the head. Once you are set with you goals don’t let the confusion and frustrations effect you and your goals. Believe in yourself and keep moving, one the same time be realistic.
Let’s set the goals right and go back to work. Wish you all a great luck with that and call all of you for a great start of the life, away from confusions and frustrations. Let’s join for a life where we dream and work to realize them.